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Wear your Confidence before getting out of the house!

Wear your Confidence before getting out of the house!

Alot of women worry daily on what to wear especially those going out for schools, markets or their work places. I don’t think that’s necessary as far as you have the right sets of clothes in your closet, all you need to do is to choose from any. 

The far most important thing to worry about is your self confidence. Always remember to wear it before going out of the house! Hold your your head high and stand straight. And that has nothing to do with you being arrogant or something. Confidence…is something a few of us were born with, while the rest of us have to struggle enough to develop and maintain it. I don’t believe it’s something so hard to achieve.

Always know that you have this inbuit ability that can take you anywhere you want to be, from wherever you are right now. But for that to be achieved you need your self confidence. If you don’t believe in yourself nobody else will. And you can’t just tell me you’re waiting for anyone on this earth to envelop what resides inside of you. Explore yourself, remind your self you are capable, you are beautiful, remarkable and one of a kind. Tell your self these and allow others to see it in you. But if you keep on hiding, people wouldn’t know you exist, all your plans and the will to be better will crumble inside. And then obviously you will be wasting “you”!

Being confident is very attractive, even more attractive than physical features. Self-confidence means trusting in your own judgment, capacities and abilities. It’s about valuing yourself and feeling worthy, regardless of any imperfections or what others may believe about you.

Also, self-esteem becomes questionable due to our life experiences, particularly if other people have put you down before or you are too over protective of yourself. Or always thinking and waiting for other people’s approval. Yourself self-esteem can easily suffer unless you support it in other ways.

There are steps you can take to increase and maintain your self-confidence.

Wear that your elegant smile every where you go. “It’s simple and, in most cases, totally spontaneous and in fact can be contagious.” It’s no suprise that in Islam, the prophet S A W said even a smile is charity. And across cultures around the world, smile is an act of friendliness. It shows the outside world that we are happy from the inside and we get to share it with them. 
Health wise, a research has revealed that smiling lowers the heart rate and temporarily reduces blood pressure there by reducing the amount of stress in a person. So learn to smile often 


Who will love you better than “you” yourself? Look at your best qualities and admire them, accept compliments graciously and don’t put doubts.


Learn to be yourself. A famous American musician kurt Cobain said “To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are.” You should know that you have some hidden talents in you which you need to explore and make use of. Don’t try to imitate anyone, you are good just the way you are what you only need right now is to focus on your good qualities.


Happiness is enjoying what you love to do. When you are confident and happy with what you do you’ll yield positive results and reach great heights.

Learn to interact with people accordingly, because only through that you’ll grow yourself. Initiate a conversation when you meet people, ask questions, maintain eye contact when talking to them, and don’t be shy.

It’s good to be good. Relate well and make peace with everyone . And if there is any negative behavior you need to change do that soon because you also would like to be treated well as well, therefore you should not be the one making others miserable. Change that!


If you a have goal, focus on achieving it. There will be lots of ups and downs along the way but keep going, one day you’ll reach there. Do not worry about what people say about you, just remain focused. 

“The better we look the happier we are, and the happier we are the more confident we feel”. So invest in clothes, shoes and items that makes you feel good and comfy and watch your confidence level increase. Just be careful, you don’t want to end up a shopaholic. So look great, smell great, be great and let the world take note of you!

“Confident people inspire confidence in others: their audience, their co-workers, their bosses, their customers, and their friends. And gaining the confidence of others is one of the key ways to succeed.”


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